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如何为生活中的“第一次”做准备

如何为生活中的“第一次”做准备
How to Prepare for the First Time at Anything
 

所有事情的第一次总是最让人激动。不管你是新工作的第一天上班还是第一次约会,你总是能记得这些“第一次”。不仅仅因为这些第一次承载着许多兴奋,还出于对一些事情的担忧。你或许会担心自己能否有个好的表现,或者其他人在你表现不好的时候会怎样看你。为了不让自己陷入那样的担忧之中,我们如何能够让第一次变得激动人心?

以下几个步骤可以让你更好地应对新环境,不再感觉到焦虑。

1. Ditch the perfection 放弃完美

On very rare occasions can you manage to do something perfectly the first time you do it, so when you do something for the first time, it is time to ditch the notion of perfection.

I remember the first time I drove a car in traffic after getting my driver's license. I was very nervous and I was overwhelmed by the traffic — my driving style showed that I wasn't a very confident driver. Now I'm much more experienced as a driver. Although I still don't consider myself a perfect one, I'm much more confident behind the wheel than what I was when I started.

In general, it is useless to strive for perfection when you do something for the first time. You are setting the bar too high and you just feel bad when you are not able to meet the level you have set.

Also, perfection is just another way to procrastinate, so trying to be perfect is just a waste of time. You want to pursue excellence instead.

2. Forget what others think 忘记别人怎么想

如何为生活中的“第一次”做准备

In order to decrease the stress you feel about your first time, just forget what others are thinking of you.

First, many people don't really care that much if you happen to fail at something. If you are open about your inexperience, they are most likely to forgive your inability to perform well.

Second, remember that others have also started from "zero" as well (driving a car, giving a public speech, going out for a date, etc.).

Third, focus on your own performance — not on others. For instance, if you're going to be running in your first marathon ever your goal is just to pass the finish line, not to run a new world record.

3. The time you spend doesn’t matter 不要在意你所花费的时间

One common characteristic of doing something for the first time is that it is most likely to be more time-consuming than subsequent times. If you are inexperienced, the first few times you are just going to be learning anyway — and hopefully getting better in the process.

Just take your time and try to learn as much as possible as you go. You will realize that the second time is much easier, since you already have some experience in your pocket.

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